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		<title>Being Fruitful in Forgetting ~ Gen. 41:50-52</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Puplava</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I was reading my Word Study NASB, I was riveted with Genesis 48: 50-52. “Now before the year of famine, two sons were born to Joseph…” Heavens! Were they twins??? It doesn’t say they were born one year after the other. It says before the YEAR of famine. Even with twins, there’s a first-born &#8230; <a href="http://handmaiden.org/wordpress/2011/10/being-fruitful-in-forgetting-genesis-4150-52/">Read more <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I was reading my Word Study NASB, I was riveted with Genesis 48: 50-52. “Now before the year of famine, two sons were born to Joseph…” Heavens! Were they twins??? It doesn’t say they were born one year after the other. It says <em>before</em> the YEAR of famine. Even with twins, there’s a first-born and a second-born as we saw with Esau and Jacob. [I've sent a request to a rabbi to verify my suspicion.]</p>
<p>Gen 41:51  And Joseph named the first-born <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Manasseh</span>,<br />
“For,” he said, “God has made me <span style="text-decoration: underline;">forget</span> all my <span style="text-decoration: underline;">troubles</span> and all my father’s household.”</p>
<p>Gen 41:52 And he named the second <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Ephraim</span>,<br />
“For,” he said, “God has made me <span style="text-decoration: underline;">fruitful</span> in the land of my <span style="text-decoration: underline;">affliction</span>.”</p>
<p><strong>MANASSEH “Making to Forget”</strong><br />
“God has made me <span style="text-decoration: underline;">forget</span> all my <span style="text-decoration: underline;">troubles</span> and all my father’s household.”</p>
<p><strong>forget #5382 nashah</strong><br />
~ to forget (figurative), to neglect (causative) – to remit, remove – forget, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">deprive</span>, exact</p>
<p><em>Mary’s Thoughts</em>:<br />
I was struck by the word “deprive.” When we truly are healed and forget the offense, the wrong and all of its bitterness, wounding and grief, we deprive the enemy of his spoils. This is like dealing with the little foxes that spoil the vine. To me, this forgiving is where I relinquish my “right” to be mad, sad, or hurt. When I forgive, the well inside of me is unblocked and I am able to bring forth the free-flow of His light, power and righteousness… and therefore I am really, truly free at last.</p>
<p><strong>troubles #5999 amal<br />
</strong>~ from #5998 amal – to toil; i.e. work severely and with irksomeness<br />
~ toil; wearing effort; hence worry, whether of body or mind – grievance, iniquity, labor, mischief, miserable, misery, pain, painful, perverseness, sorrow, toil, travail, trouble, wearisome, wickedness.<br />
~ This word can be used for the general difficulties and hardships of life, which can be seen by its use in conjunction with sorrow, affliction, and futility. It can also refer to trouble or mischief directed at another person.</p>
<p><em>Mary’s Thoughts</em>:<br />
This meaning for “troubles” so reminds me of how the enemy strikes our soul and spirit. Note that most of these meanings have much more to do with the mind and emotions than the physical body. Worry, grief, sorrow are such pervasive roots to mindsets. I can see WHY the Lord had to work this first in Joseph, before the fruit of the second son could be realized.</p>
<p><strong>EPHRAIM “Fruitfulness”<br />
</strong>“God has made me <span style="text-decoration: underline;">fruitful</span> in the land of my <span style="text-decoration: underline;">affliction</span>.”<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>fruitful #6509 <em>parah</em></strong><br />
~ to bear fruit – literally and figuratively – bear, bring forth (fruit), (be, cause to be, make) fruitful, grow, increase.</p>
<p><strong>affliction  #6040 <em>oniy</em><br />
</strong>~ 6040 <em>oniy</em>—depression, i.e. misery—afflicted (-ion), trouble</p>
<p>~ from 6031 <em>anah</em> – a primitive root [possibly rather identical with 6040 through the idea of looking down or brow-beating] to depress (literal or figurative, transitive or intransitive in various applications, as follow): &#8212; abase, self, afflict<br />
(-ion, self) answer [by mistake for 6030], chasten self, deal hardly with, defile, exercise, force, gentleness, humble (self), hurt, ravish, sing [by mistake for 6030], speak [by mistake for 6030], submit self, weaken.</p>
<p>~ 6030 <em>anah</em> – a primitive root; (properly) to eye or (general) to heed, i.e. pay attention; (by implication) to respond (by extension) to begin to speak; (specifically) to sing, shout, testify, announce:&#8211;give account, afflict [by mistake for 6031], (cause, to give) answer, bring low [by mistake for 6031], cry, hear, Leannoth, lift up, say, give a shout, sing (together by course), speak, testify, utter, (bear) witness. See also 1042, 1043.</p>
<p><em>Leannoth</em> definition: (This was an interesting word to me.)<br />
1) for answering; i.e., in singing, occurs in the title to Psalm 88. It may be rendered “concerning sickness, to be sung” i.e. perhaps, to be sung in sickness.<br />
2) This word, leannoth, seems to point to some kind of instrument unknown. The whole phrase has been rendered, “On the sickness of affliction: a lesson;” or “Concerning afflictive sickness: a didactic psalm.”<br />
3) From the Holman Bible Dictionary: (lih uhn&#8217; nohth) Transliteration of Hebrew word in title of Psalm 88 possibly meaning “to sing” or “for the poor,” “for the sick.” It may be part of the title of a tune to which the Psalm was sung. The meaning remains obscure and uncertain.</p>
<p><strong><em>Mary Thoughts:<br />
</em></strong>After re-reading these Hebrew definitions and root words, I immediately heard “Why are you cast down, O my soul?”  This verse is from Psalm 43:5—</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">“Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God,<br />
for I shall again praise Him, The help of my countenance and my God.” NASB</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Why are you cast down, O my soul? and why are you disquieted within me? hope in God:<br />
for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God. AKJV</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Browbeat</span><br />
I was intrigued by the word “brow-beating” found in the primitive root word, anah, and looked it up on dictionary.com. Browbeat means to intimidate by overbearing looks or words, <em>bully</em>. Its synonyms are <em>cow, badger, tyrannize, harass, coerce</em>. Other related words are <em>bullied, cowed, hangdog, intimidated</em>. In its word origin, it means “to bully,” originally “to bear down with stern or arrogant looks.” This meaning certainly indicates an outside force, but, it also implies that I agreed with the lie and allowed it to take root inside.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Depression<br />
</span>This actual definition for the Hebrew word for troubles says it all. We would assume that the affliction had to do with the physical aspect of Joseph’s trials when sold into slavery. But in actuality, it was his soul (mind, will, and emotions) that bore the deeper hardship.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Fruitfulness</span><br />
Fruit—meaning growth and increase—couldn’t come forth until the roots of Joseph’s “troubles” and “affliction” were dealt with.</p>
<p>Notice how Joseph names his first son, making to forget, and then the second son, fruitful. This so speaks to me of dealing with root issues. The causes may not change, but our focus and attitude towards them must change in order for healing and growth (fruit) to come.</p>
<p><strong>SUMMING IT ALL UP</strong></p>
<p>We’ve got to shatter the past’s hold on our emotional lives. It must release its hold on us, so we can transition into our future. It’s Paul’s attitude as he writes in Philippians 3:13-15—</p>
<p>Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: <strong>forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead</strong>, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Let us therefore, as many as are perfect, have this attitude; and if in anything you have a different attitude, <strong>God will reveal that also to you</strong>…</p>
<p>So what’s the “it” Paul is referring to? Verses 8-11!</p>
<p>…I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish <strong>so that I may gain Christ</strong>, and may be found in Him, not having a righteousness of my own derived from the Law, but that which is <strong>through faith in Christ, the righteousness which comes from God on the basis of faith</strong>, that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death; in order that I may attain to the resurrection from the dead.</p>
<p>WOW! When we submit our “feelings” to God and let go of holding on to them—through our forgiving and forgetting, even though our world and self-righteousness says it’s our right—His love makes a way to dissolve them.  In order for us to truly be released into our identification as sons and daughters of our God and our personal destinies, we MUST let go of the past.</p>
<p><strong>WHERE’S OUR FOCUS?</strong></p>
<p>Magnifying Jesus instead of our past issues and problems is the key to fruitfulness, grace and increase. The enemy is the father of all lies [John 8:44]. If he can plant a seed of wounding or sorrow with lies into our lives and we allow it to grow into bitterness and unforgiveness, it will grow into a full-blown tree of <em>un</em>righteousness. Let’s get our eyes off us and onto Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith. [Hebrews 11:1,2]</p>
<p>1 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, <strong>let us lay aside every weight</strong>, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, <strong>and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us</strong>, 2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.</p>
<p><strong>ONE MORE INTERESTING TIDBIT</strong></p>
<p>Following along with the story of Manasseh and Ephraim, I was really touched by Genesis 48. Joseph was told that his father was sick. So, Joseph took Manasseh and Ephraim with him to see his father.  I was struck by the fact that in his heart, Joseph knew that Ephraim should be before Manasseh. He took Ephraim FIRST and with his RIGHT HAND (righteousness)—which is significant—but placed him on Jacob’s left and then took Manasseh with his left hand (unrighteousness), but placed him on Jacob’s right. Jacob CRISSCROSSED his hands to pronounce the blessing. Through these sons, Joseph received a double-portion inheritance.</p>
<p>Gen 48:5 “And now your two sons, who were born to you in the land of Egypt before I came to you in Egypt, are mine. Ephraim and Manasseh shall be mine as Reuben and Simeon are.” – Note the order of Jacob’s statement.</p>
<p>Gen 48:13 And Joseph took them both, Ephraim with his right hand toward Israel’s left, and Manasseh with his left hand toward Israel’s right, and brought them close to him.</p>
<p>Gen 48:14 But Israel stretched out his right hand and laid it on the head of Ephraim, who was the younger, and his left hand on Manasseh’s head, crossing his hands, although Manasseh was the first-born.</p>
<p>When I read of Jacob’s crossing his hands, I immediately heard <strong>“Christ’s Cross.”</strong> In any situation – past or present – put the issue in front of the Cross of Jesus. Let His precious blood heal the wound, lay it aside, and forget it for good. Press on to fruitfulness!</p>
<p>Remember Joseph’s famous quote: “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good…” (Gen. 50:20) There is merit in every life experience. With all my heart, I do believe that nothing happens to us, except it passes through the Father’s hands. Therefore, knowing He is a loving Father, what He allows is for my good. If I keep my eyes on Jesus and what He accomplished at the Cross for me, AND if I sit with Him in heavenly places, I can stand and not sink. I can walk and not be faint. Fruitfulness WILL come. I can bank on that heavenly treasury to pour out for me.</p>
<p><strong>Book Recommendation</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://handmaiden.org/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/forgive.png"><img class="size-full wp-image-794 alignright" title="forgive" src="http://handmaiden.org/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/forgive.png" alt="God Meant It For Good" width="160" height="188" /></a>I read R.T. Kendall’s book, <a title="R T Kendall's &quot;God Meant It For Good&quot;" href="http://rtkendallministries.com/resources/store#ecwid:mode=product&amp;product=3440558" target="_blank">God Meant It For Good</a>, in the ‘90s at just the right time for forgiveness to come and bring healing with my parents. It’s been republished recently.</p>
<p>I sincerely recommend it to you.</p>
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		<title>The Lie That Binds Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 23:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Puplava</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Lie and The Revelation This past December, my sister was here for a visit. One morning we were sitting outside with our coffee and talking about our childhood. I said to her, &#8220;The reason I was overweight was because of the steroids.&#8221; The moment I spoke it, it was like fireworks flashing. I literally &#8230; <a href="http://handmaiden.org/wordpress/2010/01/the-lie-that-binds-us/">Read more <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Lie and The Revelation<br />
</strong>This past December, my sister was here for a visit. One morning we were sitting outside with our coffee and talking about our childhood. I said to her, &#8220;The reason I was overweight was because of the steroids.&#8221; The moment I spoke it, it was like fireworks flashing. I literally jumped up and said, &#8220;It wasn&#8217;t my fault! It was the steroids! It was a lie! I didn&#8217;t do it!&#8221; You see, I have fought my weight ever since I was eight years old. I always thought it was my lack of self-control, temperance, a sweet tooth, or inability to deny myself. Now I realize that I couldn&#8217;t do anything about it when I was 8. My weight was due to the steriods I took for severe asthma. The tragic thing was, my sister reminded me how Mom and Dad would lecture me. She specifically remembered a time I was sitting on a stool in front of them and they were berating me for my weight and my Dad said, &#8220;Men don&#8217;t like women with glasses and fat a__es.&#8221;</p>
<p>The trouble is, I believed the lie. They believed the lie. And since that tender age I have always felt ashamed that I was overweight and couldn&#8217;t control my eating urges. Praise God I have been set free! I am now at liberty to be exactly who I was meant to be without any shame or remorse. I <em>can</em> have self-control, I <em>can</em> control my urges, I <em>can</em> do something to take this weight off! I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me! [<a title="through Christ who strengthens me" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Phillipians%204&amp;version=NKJV" target="_blank">Phil. 4:13</a>]</p>
<p>Within a few days of that revelation, my sister and I attended a small group meeting with our associate pastor. Imagine our shock when he said, &#8220;Satan will come early in your life to plant a lie and take you out. Once planted, he doesn&#8217;t have to worry about you so much, because the lie does his job for him. He can move on to someone else.&#8221; Since that meeting, I have been asking the Lord to reveal other lies planted in my life. Two more lies have been revealed this year. I recently posted a book report on Beni Johnson&#8217;s book, <a title="Book Review: The Happy Intercessor" href="http://www.handmaiden.org/wordpress/?p=170">The Happy Intercessor</a>. She had this same revelation in her life.</p>
<p>This morning I had an urge to read Isaiah and came across a verse that blew me away. <em>What sorrow for those who drag their sins behind them with ropes made of lies, who drag wickedness behind them like a cart!</em> [<a title="Isaiah 5:18" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah%205:18&amp;version=NLT" target="_blank">Isaiah 5:18</a>] Of course, the Lord is talking about Judah&#8217;s guilt and judgment, but this could also be the lie(s) the enemy planted early in our lives. It could be the accusation or false truth we accepted as truth. It&#8217;s the lie that binds like a rope.</p>
<p><strong>Our Little Red Wagons<br />
</strong>In my margin notes on Isaiah 5, I had written &#8220;red wagon&#8221; on this verse. My mother-in-law once shared a story with me that has never left me. Unforgiveness, grudges, bad thoughts about ourselves, and negativism are like things we carry around with us, as adults, in our little red wagon. We are to take them to the CROSS and leave them there. Those who can&#8217;t forgive, can&#8217;t forget, and can&#8217;t receive forgiveness and healing are doomed to drag their childish red wagon with them the rest of their lives.</p>
<p><strong>What We Can Do</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Spend quiet time with the Lord and ask the Spirit of Trutch to reveal the lies in your life.</li>
<li>Repent for believing the lie.</li>
<li>Forgive those who may have implanted the lie.</li>
<li>Forgive those who confirmed the lie.</li>
<li>Apply the Blood of Jesus to those lies.</li>
<li>Receive healing in those areas.</li>
<li>Confess healing.</li>
<li>Look up Scriptures to declare His truth.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t ever feed into the lie by agreeing with it again!</li>
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